The other day I was watching Denise Richards and something struck me; she said “I look horrible, I have no make-up on”. I didn’t realize that make-up gave women the ability to be beautiful. I was hearing this unsurmountable dilemna; Make-up + woman= beautiful. There are very few girls I see anymore that wear absolutely no make-up, and with the abscence of it usually comes insecurity. I’ve heard women time and time again tell me that if only they would be able to cover up their “bad skin”. Either way they are on the search for some sort of validation whether it be fishing for compliments or just for someone to tell them how pretty they are. There have been numerous times where a girl comes in to my job(I am a make-up artist) and the first thing she says is that she needs full coverage, basically a mask. What are you trying to hide? If you can’t think of yourself as beautiful without make-up then you are truly going to be unhappy your whole life, regardless of the variety of plastic surgery procedures that you undergo. You will still see your face in the mirror. Your inadequacy is something that resides within your mind or the atmospheres of your life experiences.
I’m not in any way taking away the fact that it is a part of a womans wardrobe, but it is the fact that women use it as a crutch. What’s wrong with wearing no make-up on the train? How about even going to the gym without make-up? Do you really want to be “That Girl”? How about the girl that’s on the train and she is smearing black eyeshadow on with her finger? She may call it a “smokey eye”, I call it a mess. Just because you are wearing make-up does not mean you look better, and most women don’t even know how to apply it properly(six years experience).
What I’m telling women is that you can be beautiful without putting on make-up, it doesn’t define your beauty. You define your beauty. I have worked with models from many agencies and might I add they are some of the most insecure people. Once you find yourself, make-up will become an accessory and not a way of life.